Words.....

It's a little bit on the strange side of life how words make such a big difference. words of love, of hatred, of peace, of desire, of want, of so many human emotions that to list them all is a gargantuan task. At so many points in time what needs to be said goes unsaid and a chasm develops. A void created by the inability of a person to see the right time to say something. Some people might say it's hard for them to express them selves. Well how can it be? When every thing you desire has been made available to you not through extra sensory perception but through your own ability to express what you want. How is it that one expects to hear words of encouragement, of love, of desire, of praise, of want..... of so many things and still at the same time claim that they can't put into words how they feel? Is it really very hard to say I love you, or I think you are wonderful, or that I admire the way you have handled things??? Is it really harder than saying I hate you, you are despicable, your life is aimless and your existence a bane??? Is it easier to express these opinions??? Why?? What is it about the negative that people find it so easy to say? How can one say your worthless and then dismiss it with out a second thought??
And yet at the same time why does it matter that someone tell you they love you when you know that they already do? Everyone goes through a phase when they feel lonely, even in a roomful of people. When they feel that feelings are not enough. When they feel the need to hear the words.